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Written by Jimmy [Jimmy Tells Story]
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Monday, 08 September 2008 07:44 |
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Jimmy 在这一次的故事中分享一本好书 -- "亲子互动的撇步*"。这里，
他一口气说明了这一大堆问题：
- 我的孩子爱哭哦！
- 您有剥夺孩子学习的机会吗？
- 这位妈妈要孩子拿“B”就好。
- 天才是要培养的。
- 要赢，就要专注！
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Jimmy shares his inspirations he got from an interesting book. Listen to Jimmy how he sees the problems of children's crying, learning deprivation, geniuses, and the power of concentration. [Listen online or download the mp3]
*撇步: 台湾惯用语，是诀窍的意思。 |
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Last Updated on Monday, 08 September 2008 08:13 |
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Written by Jimmy [Jimmy Tells Story]
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Monday, 11 August 2008 09:47 |
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家长都希望孩子能够理解社会的竞争、生活的压力、知识能够左右命运这些道理，其用心良苦值得同情，望子成龙可以理解。但是，用“好好学习可以上大学，不好好学习只能当。。。”这样的理念教育孩子，看似实际，却在潜移默化中渗透了不少副作用。为了鼓励孩子而贬低某种职业是不可取的，这会误导孩子、造成孩子会看不起某种职业。其实，职业不分贵贱，只要是正当的职业都是社会的需要。与其恐吓孩子，不如多启发孩子，让孩子懂得惜福来增加学习的动力，同时还可以培养善良、关爱、同情心，使孩子形成更健康的人格和社会责任感。[线上听或下载 mp3]
While it is important to get our children to become competitive, we should refrain from labeling certain types of occupation as jobs for the losers. This might cause our children to look down at the people of those professions. As long as the a job makes a decent livelihood, we should respect it, and be thankful to those who perform the hard works. [Listen online or download the mp3] |
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Written by Jimmy [Jimmy Tells Story]
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Wednesday, 30 July 2008 09:09 |
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有些父母会有意无意地恐吓孩子说："不好好念书，将来连扫大街的工作都找不着！" 其实这些说法无形中对孩子进行了“心罚”。什么是“心罚”呢？心罚是指父母对孩子恐吓、讽刺或挖苦，剥夺孩子的自尊和自信。
否定性的评价比肯定性的评价让孩子记得深远。因为否定性评价常常发生于沮丧或急切的情况下，有很强的冲撞力，也因此会留下深刻印象。通常在孩子的个性还没有完全形成、自尊心还没强到可以不在乎别人的批评时，父母的否定往往会产生重要影响，在他们潜意识里留下很深的痕迹。[线上听或下载 mp3]
Many parents unknowingly "motivate" their children by saying something like, "If you don’t do well in your study, you will end up doing some ‘undesirable’ jobs". We usualy make it specific what these ‘undesirable jobs’ are: faeces collector, rubbish collector, road sweeper, etc. These seemingly “impactful” advice may have some side effects. [Listen online or download the mp3] |
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Last Updated on Wednesday, 30 July 2008 13:42 |
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給孩子創意的空間 Room for Creativity |
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Written by Jimmy [Jimmy Tells Story]
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Wednesday, 09 July 2008 11:22 |
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創意是需要有自由的空間。能够給予孩子们充分的空間自由去發展他們的潛在知識本能。讓他們有創造自我知識的機會。[线上听或下载 mp3]
We need rooms to unleash our creativity. The same principle applies to our children. Listen to Jimmy on how he encourages his students in expanding their horizons and create their own experience and knowledge.
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Last Updated on Monday, 14 July 2008 08:58 |
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性教育 Dirty Joke & Sex Education |
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Written by Jimmy [Jimmy Tells Story]
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Sunday, 06 July 2008 02:42 |
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既然孩子已提出有关性的问题，就要坦然面对孩子。在回答这个问题时，首先要有坦诚的态度，不要乱编故事，也不要乱说玩笑，要用美好的语言进行诱导。语言的诱导应该是家长精心设想的，不能太随便了事，也不可太随机应变，随口说说。正确的诱导能够阻断孩子不必要的幻想。 [线上听或下载 mp3]
At some point in time, sooner or later, our children will start talking about sex. If you think primary school children are too young to start sex education, you might be wrong. Jimmy’s young student first talk about it in the form of “dirty joke”. Usually parents are alarmed by such expressions. If unguided, our children’s curiosity about sex can turn into distraction from their study, or worse, it can become major problem with the people around them. Let’s hear how Jimmy skilfully and honestly guide his student to have proper attitude towards sex.
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Last Updated on Monday, 07 July 2008 13:32 |
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Written by Jimmy [Jimmy Tells Story]
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Friday, 04 July 2008 07:00 |
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自卑感常以一种消极防御的形式表现出来，如嫉妒、猜疑、羞怯、孤僻、迁怒、自欺欺人、焦虑紧张、不安等。自卑对人的心理发展有很大影响。它往往使人变得十分敏感，甚至使人对那些稍加努力完全能够完成的任务也轻易放弃。 [线上听或下载 mp3]
Deep beneath the aggression, or other forms of problematic behavior, usually are difficulties faced by our children in their quests for growing up. In this story, Jimmy talks about how his student uses force and rationalization to make sense of his language problem. Jimmy traces a simple act of slapping a friend all the way to the common problem of English learning difficulty, and points out some approaches parents might use to help their children.
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Last Updated on Friday, 04 July 2008 21:40 |
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满天都是小星星 Twinkle Twinkle Little Star |
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Monday, 30 June 2008 02:55 |
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家庭是孩子成长的直接环境，相处模式对他造成的心理暗示有好有坏.
在这个案例中，家庭的影响占了大部分责任。
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In this story, Jimmy talks about his long journey with one of his most challenging students. At the verge of giving up, Jimmy realizes that his student was the victim of his family's condition. It is interesting to see how Jimmy helps him to overcome the hurdle. This 15-minute story is a must-listen for parents with problematc children
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Jimmy Tells Stories
Raising children is a long and complicated journey. In addition to providing formal education, we need to provide, or at least expose, our children to stimuli that strengthen their resistance to stress and problems. If we make everythign ready-to-use to our children, they will not have the ability and resilience to face challenges in life. It is not uncommon to see some of our children literally destroyed by seemingly small problems. Listen to Jimmy some of his experience in this. [Listen online or 
